Ask “What” Questions – Get better responses
Learn to ask well-crafted “What” questions and you will get better responses without sparking controversy or hurt feelings.
As a Christian woman, you face unique challenges while you strive to live out your faith amid everyday life pressures. You try to balance expectations – your own and others, and still meet the needs around, and within you. Then, unexpected life changes, losses, or relational conflicts enter your life, and the balance tips into overload, frustration, and discouragement.
Do you wonder, “When will someone care about my needs?”
What if you could start and finish your day joyful and confident?
As a Christian Counselor, I help women turn stalled growth, emotional pain, and life challenges into whole-person well-being (relational, emotional, spiritual, and physical). Don’t let depression, anxiety, or shame define who you are or what you can achieve. (My online community for Christian women reflects that purpose: “Walking by the Way – Because life and faith are all about relationships!”)
As a Relationship Coach, I help Stepmoms and Stepparents grow blended family relationships worth celebrating. (Stepmom Success and Step-Prep for couples)
Conflict is too costly to ignore so I help individuals and families learn the skills to resolve disagreements and live peaceably. (Conflict Coaching and Mediation services)
Every conflict begins with a frustrated difference of opinion or purpose. How will you keep your disagreement from degrading into a regrettable clash or costly dispute?
HERE'S YOUR ANSWERTake a risk-free first step. Come grow with us! Walking by the Way is a safe, private online community for Christian women, like you. Be nurtured in whole-person wellness.
TAKE YOUR FIRST STEPUnresolved losses accumulate and get personal. How is it affecting your focus, energy level, sleep cycle, health, attitudes, and relationships?
ADDRESS YOUR CONCERNSPersonally and professionally, I know the difficulties of accomplishing sustainable change and resolving conflict peaceably. I understand the pain that accompanies loss, not just losses due to a family member’s death, but losses of relationships, jobs, unrealized expectations, and unfulfilled dreams. Maintaining emotional stability and developing endurance gets tough some days. As stressors continue to build, your physical health feels the impact.
During my long season of difficult days, I often wished that I could talk to someone about the issues I was facing. Instead, I struggled through it alone because I lived in places with few (and sometimes no) Christian counseling and coaching resources. I did not know who I could trust so I remained silent. I needed someone who was trained to help and who would also respect my Christian faith. Later, when I became a Stepmom, I could have avoided painful mistakes if I had someone to guide me through the complexities of blending families wisely.
I would not wish those struggles on anyone else. That is why I would like to help you today. Let’s start a conversation. It just takes one click on the white button below.
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Learn to ask well-crafted “What” questions and you will get better responses without sparking controversy or hurt feelings.
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Learn to ask well-crafted “What” questions and you will get better responses without sparking controversy or hurt feelings.
The “wrongly right” logical misstep: To escape the futile merry-go-round of circular arguments, don’t assume that you are right when offended..
We expect “why” questions from toddlers, but in adult conversations “why questions spark contention, not amicable discussions, and get you nowhere in relationships.
Since our shared 99.9% DNA makes us so similar, why do humans hyper-focus on our differences, especially those that spark conflicts?
Imagine a routine doctor’s appointment like this one: